Is There Help?
While it may seem like there is no where to turn and that no one understands the pain and suffering that one goes through when losing a child, don’t lose hope.
You are not alone and there are groups of people who know the pain you’re going through – they are available to support you through this tremendously terrible time.
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Resources For Grieving Parents
The Compassionate Friends Network
With locations in all 50 US States, The Henzi Foundation recommends reaching out to a local chapter or finding a location online through their website.
Many parents who have lost their children prematurely turn to The Compassionate Friends Network for help and you can too.
If you cannot find a location close to you or need to reach out to someone who understands your pain – they also have a listing of 24/7 Facebook Groups that are always available to help. These are real people and groups run by bereaved parents, feel safe and confident reaching out.
If you are in a position to give to a wonderful service to grieving parents, we also believe this is money well donated. See their donation page here to donate online.
“There are no strangers at TCF meetings—only friends you have not yet met.”
Everyone needing respite and healing for a loss, no matter the cause of the loss or the background of those involved, is welcome at KAREfarm. You can heal at a retreat that will not turn you away while KAREfarm will provide support, lodging and meals at no cost so there is nothing between you and the support that can help. In beautiful Brooksville, KY you can connect with others and receive support from grief facilitators on 97 acres of rolling hills and escape into miles of trails, fish in the lake and more while “glamping” around those who actually know what you’re going through. In times where you think that no one understands the difficulty you may be facing, KAREfarm is a place to understand you’re not alone and talk to those who are facing similar circumstances while escaping the surroundings you find yourself now.
POMC – Parents of Murdered Children
Sadly too many of our children are taken away from us at the hands of another. The Parents of Murdered Children group has a resources page that’s a great starting point if you’ve found yourself in this awful situation.
They are also looking for your support and are taking donations online through their portal here.
A resource center for victims of violent acts they offer a place for you to start if one of your loved ones has been the victim of a violent crime. See their Homicide and Grief page to start.
They also have a hotline you can call for support and talk to a victim assistant specialist: 1-855-4VICTIM (1-855-484-2846)
If you are uncomfortable talking by phone they offer an online chat service available at chat.victimconnect.org.
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
Sadly one of the leading causes of death for teenagers is suicide. Knowing this the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, or AFSP, has put together a resources page with listing for those who have survivied someone who has committed suicide.
The Henzi Foundation also recommends giving, if possible, to this great cause to help drive down the reason we lose our loved ones too soon. Learn more and how you can donate here.
If you’ve lost a loved one to COVID-19 and are looking for a place to turn there are support groups forming that can help you start healing that wound.
This Facebook group is dedicated to not only survivors of COVID, but to those who have survived the loss of loved ones to COVID-19. If you are already on Facebook we encourage you to join and support others and reconcile your loss through communicating with those like you.
Due to their own experience with loss this group has banded together to eradicate COVID-19. Among their goals is providing survivors of COVID resources that can help in this uncertain time. See their page here to get help after surviving COVID-19.
Where else can I turn?
SAMHSA – Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration
If none of the services above apply or you don’t find condolence in what they have to offer the service SAMHSA.gov, operates a toll free line that can help connect you to the right service.
Call The 24/7 Help Line: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Their services are free and confidential with an aim to get you connected with the right service. If you are facing a mental health problem due to loss, fighting addiction or difficulty grieving and need to talk to a professional or support group they can get you on the right path.
For anyone struggling right now with the loss of a loved one, the depression, guilt and anxiety that comes with it – they are ready to help.
We especially recommend this service if you are a parent needing direction on how to best find help for the siblings affected by the loss of a child. Support groups and counseling might be the best answer, and if you find that you are in a position where counseling is out of your price range they can help.
“SAMHSA’s National Helpline, 1-800-662-HELP (4357), (also known as the Treatment Referral Routing Service) or TTY: 1-800-487-4889 is a confidential, free, 24-hour-a-day, 365-day-a-year, information service, in English and Spanish, for individuals and family members facing mental and/or substance use disorders.
This service provides referrals to local treatment facilities, support groups, and community-based organizations. Callers can also order free publications and other information.”